Can’t Always Get What You Want

St. Patrick's Day Outfit


Peacock Necklace


Peacock Feather Satin Flats

Bohemian Outfit
Cropped Jacket Younique, Shirt Wet Seal, Pleated Skirt Everly, Flats Fairy Tales Come True,  Necklace Forever 21, Sunglasses Diane Von Furstenberg

This week has been a little crazy. 

Not only did I find out I have a new job that I’ll be starting on Monday, my dad also had surgery.


 I spent most of it traveling back and forth from Salinas to Berkeley in order to be there for my dad. The day before I left to Salinas I found out I had been hired for one of the two positions I had applied for last month. I should have been overjoyed except I felt nothing but disappointment because I did not get the position I initially applied for. Needless to say, the timing was not the best when I was already feeling worried about my dad’s pending surgery.


I know I should feel grateful to even have a job soon after graduating from college during a period of high unemployment, but it is only natural to feel disappointment when we don’t get what we want. Even though I am now feeling pretty excited with the new opportunities this other position has in store for me, it was important for me to feel unhappy instead of pretending everything was okay. I feel I have matured and grown up a little from this experience. In some ways I am glad I did not get the other position because I know the best candidate was chosen. Often times people feel entitled to things and cannot accept a loss, but it is important to understand we don’t always get what we want, and sometimes it is a good thing. 


My dad’s surgery went well and I officially start my new position Monday. I know this text has nothing to do with the photos (which are from St. Patrick’s Day), but I appreciate if you have read this far because I have been absent and wanted to share more about myself than I am used to. I typically share only the positive moments on my blog, but life isn’t always fun. It is what we make of it and I am glad if you are reading about my ups as well as my downs.


Thanks again for reading and following! 


Love,



P.S. Don’t forget to check out my Poshmark closet! I’ve added a few items featured on the blog and might be adding the green cropped cargo jacket seen above. I am also adding more items this week so follow me in case you don’t want to miss out!

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9 Replies to “Can’t Always Get What You Want”

  1. LOVE all the peacock details! I'm glad your dad's surgery went well.

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  2. Très chic!! Love your necklace!!

  3. Love how your necklace matches your shoes. So pretty peacock!

    Awww glad to hear your dad's surgery went well. Sending great thoughts for his recovery and good luck on your new position!

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  4. Congrats on your new job! Glad to hear your dad's surgery went well hope he has a smooth recovery. And cute accessories!

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  5. What a fun girl you seem to be! Love your little 'about me' section and the title of your blog! … oh and those shoes! Congrats on the job!

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  6. Hope your father recovers well and your new job is fun 🙂

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  7. oh my goodness, there are no words to describe how much I love those flats. Obsessed. You look so fabulous. If you get a sec, I'd love if you'd enter my latest giveaway. I'll be picking 3 winners next week. Thanks, love. xo

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